Who is driving the bus?

Feels like some sort of new interior remodel.  I just keep wheelbarrowing stuff out the door to dump on the burn (surrender) pile.  With catastrophic events like 600,000 potential children starving to death in Somalia, I have to wonder where The Divine is driving the bus?  It obviously wasn't a solution that I thought I would drive the bus better, so practicing opening my heart and allowing for a current of love/compassion to move through worked better for not falling into the grip of excruciating pain. More small steps.

While researching information for www.Selfseeds.com, I found an article that is a nice reminder of the basics behind the personality level of pain:

Why emotions make relationships so painful - Ecademy